Saturday, January 24, 2009
Friday, January 23, 2009
My newest hobby... digital scrapbooking
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Interesting Article on Baby Einstein and Educational Programming
Baby Einsteins: Not So Smart After All
By Alice Park Monday, Aug. 06, 2007
The claim always seemed too good to be true: park your infant in front of a video and, in no time, he or she will be talking and getting smarter than the neighbor's kid. In the latest study on the effects of popular videos such as the "Baby Einstein" and "Brainy Baby" series, researchers find that these products may be doing more harm than good. And they may actually delay language development in toddlers.
Led by Frederick Zimmerman and Dr. Dimitri Christakis, both at the University of Washington, the research team found that with every hour per day spent watching baby DVDs and videos, infants learned six to eight fewer new vocabulary words than babies who never watched the videos. These products had the strongest detrimental effect on babies 8 to 16 months old, the age at which language skills are starting to form. "The more videos they watched, the fewer words they knew," says Christakis. "These babies scored about 10% lower on language skills than infants who had not watched these videos."
It's not the first blow to baby videos, and likely won't be the last. Mounting evidence suggests that passive screen sucking not only doesn't help children learn, but could also set back their development. Last spring, Christakis and his colleagues found that by three months, 40% of babies are regular viewers of DVDs, videos or television; by the time they are two years old, almost 90% are spending two to three hours each day in front of a screen. Three studies have shown that watching television, even if it includes educational programming such as Sesame Street, delays language development. "Babies require face-to-face interaction to learn," says Dr. Vic Strasburger, professor of pediatrics at the University of New Mexico School of Medicine and a spokesperson for the American Academy of Pediatrics. "They don't get that interaction from watching TV or videos. In fact, the watching probably interferes with the crucial wiring being laid down in their brains during early development." Previous studies have shown, for example, that babies learn faster and better from a native speaker of a language when they are interacting with that speaker instead of watching the same speaker talk on a video screen. "Even watching a live person speak to you via television is not the same thing as having that person in front of you," says Christakis.
This growing evidence led the Academy to issue its recommendation in 1999 that no child under two years old watch any television. The authors of the new study might suggest reading instead: children who got daily reading or storytelling time with their parents showed a slight increase in language skills.
Though the popular baby videos and DVDs in the Washington study were designed to stimulate infants' brains, not necessarily to promote language development, parents generally assume that the products' promises to make their babies smarter include improvement of speaking skills. But, says Christakis, "the majority of the videos don't try to promote language; they have rapid scene changes and quick edits, and no appearance of the 'parent-ese' type of speaking that parents use when talking to their babies."
As far as Christakis and his colleagues can determine, the only thing that baby videos are doing is producing a generation of overstimulated kids. "There is an assumption that stimulation is good, so more is better," he says. "But that's not true; there is such a thing as overstimulation." His group has found that the more television children watch, the shorter their attention spans later in life. "Their minds come to expect a high level of stimulation, and view that as normal," says Christakis, "and by comparison, reality is boring."
He and other experts worry that the proliferation of these products will continue to displace the one thing that babies need in the first months of life — face time with human beings. "Every interaction with your child is meaningful," says Christakis. "Time is precious in those early years, and the newborn is watching you, and learning from everything you do." So just talk to them; they're listening.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
How Crunchy are you?
http://themoralesfamily.us/granola.htm
Some of the ladies in my Attachment Parenting group passed this out, I scored:
129-90 Mmm! Love that whole-grain crunch!
Guess I'm crunchier than I thought! LOL
Oh for those not really into mommy slang: Crunchy or Granola Moms are typically the baby wearing, breastfeeding, into organic foods, co sleeping, cloth diapering, alternative, attachment parenting hippie types. The moms running barefoot in the yard... they tend to be liberal and left leaning.
I'm mildly crunchy, don't think I could ever go hardcore crunchy- IE: unassisted home birth, home schooling etc etc... but I'm fairly proud of my mild crunchiness :o)
For more information about Attachment Parenting check out Dr. Sears's website at:
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/T130300.asp
His site is also great for all those questions you'd like to bug your Pedi about in the middle of the night :) Good, down to earth advice... as good as it comes anymore anyway!
Great deals... yay!

My other great deal was not nearly this exciting but made me happy anyway. We're still using our Boppy Pillow constantly, and the peanut is a messy eater lately since she's started teething. We desperately needed a new cover for our boppy so we could always have a clean one. I went to Target today to get one, and one was 13 dollars, but once I cruised over to the clearance aisle they had a 2 pack of covers for only 8 dollars... very sweet..
I'm a bargain shopping fool... bless you if you've read this far, this is the most exciting thing in Tara land right now LOL so I apologize for boring you mindless! I'll try to find something better to write about soon!
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Watching history...
I'll tell her how when he spoke she was very quiet and big eyed, and watched the whole thing...
I'll tell her how I sat with her Grandpa in the middle of the night the night Obama won the election and watched his speech, rubbing my belly wondering when she'd come out and watch all this history happening around her....
Monday, January 19, 2009
My funny kid...
Last night I woke up to nurse Kat, and our cat Luna crawled up next to me so I pet her with my free hand while Kat was nursing.
Luna started purring, Kat gave a BIG smile, stopped nursing, and then started purring happily back at Luna.
I laughed so hard I woke Tim up, problem is- after this it was Playtime in Kat's mind and she refused to go back to sleep, she just wanted to purr and talk to everyone (Luna included)
Luckily Daddy finally took a shift and I managed to get a little more sleep!
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Kat purring...
I told you she purred :o)
While I was editing the movie she heard it and started purring again, she does it all day long now! What a silly girl!!
Saturday, January 17, 2009
It was a good birthday
This post is a few days late, because we've been running around like maniacs doing things and generally being parents...
So Tim took me to Red Lobster where I spent waaay too much money, but had myself my first margarita in over a year (yay!), forgot what I lightweight I was, and proceeded to giggle my way through the rest of dinner and try to convince Tim into making a snow man with me in front of the Red Lobster...
Then we were supposed to go sledding at The Fridge with some friends, but due to -20 below wind chills they closed it for the night (like I'd have attempted it that cold, but I digress) so we went to Borders, bought LOTS of books (woohoo), then grabbed Katie and Matt to go bowling with us.
All in all it was a good birthday, I got all kinds of goodies- Borders gift card, the first 2 seasons of Weeds, awesome 1928 jewelry, and I still have a gift in reserve from Tim that I need to go pick out at the Mall once I'm feeling up to it. We were going to do it then, but we were just too tired and cold!
Kat hung out at Grandma and Grandpa's house for the evening and had lots of fun. She finally mastered purring (no I'm not kidding) and will look at you and make the little purr noise to tell you she wants you to purr at her, once you do you get a BIG smile out of her. She knows that, and how to ask for kisses... if you make the kiss noise she opens up her mouth real wide and leans in for her 'kiss'... but once in awhile she'll just make the kiss face and go in for one to let you know she wants one! This kid cracks me up! Going to have to get some video of that for Grandma in West Virginia!
So 27 was a good year, very full... I enjoyed it, and very much look forward to the year of 28... and all the cool stuff Kat will be doing, and everything else going on in our lives!
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Baby, it's cold outside!
We were going to run errands today (we meaning myself and the WeePiglet) but the wind chill is going to be around -20 today and this evening, so looks like we're staying snuggled up inside.
It's snowing a little outside, and luckily nothing we needed to pick up is urgent and we can put the errands off for a few extra days until it's a little better outside. No way am I taking the little one out in this weather!
Ask me in the summer if I regret moving to Michigan and you'll get a resounding no... however, anytime after the Christmas holiday up to Summer (we have no spring here lol) you might get a different answer. I only miss Virginia weather in the winter.... brrrr... you'd think after living here for over a year I'd have gotten used to the weather, but my blood must still be southern and thin because I'm FREEZING!!! lol
I feel like I should put on some Hawaiian music and make some Margaritas to dispel the chill outside. I'll get a tiny grass skirt for Piglet and we'll have ourselves a luau before daddy wakes up!
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
The Sun will come out tomorrow...
Today is a better day than yesterday, Kat's little fever is allll gone and she slept all night last night, and only woke up once to nurse from 10:30-9am! That's my good good girl.
While I'm dreaming of a tropical vacation... Now for some more pictures!
Daddies are good for napping on...
Monday, January 12, 2009
It's a bad day to be a baby...
Then to make things worse Mom and Dad thought they could do grocery shopping at Wal Mart... for this experience she reserved the special cry, the one where she turns purple and can't catch her breath...
She can't nap, or get comfy... she's running a low grade fever and her chubby little legs are all pink!
It's not a good day to be a mommy either! I just want to make it all better and not hurt! That's all the time we have now folks... hope my Piglet feels better tomorrow!
Sunday, January 11, 2009
2 Months old!
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Kat and Horton
Sick...
She's sitting with daddy right now smiling with little circles under her eyes, it's so cute and pitiful all at the same time!
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Finally, her hospital picture!
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Clingy Pumpkin...
For some reason this silly little baby is completely attached to me today. When she's awake she's happy enough as long as I'm in touching distance. She had a long and deeply involved conversation with Horton this morning, but only when I was right next to her on the couch. And even if I'm next to her, she manages to scoot closely enough that she's laying against me.
I wonder if she's missing the time before she was born, when she was always with me and being held on to. It seems that way... all she wants is momma right now, and if I hug her tight she gives me a big smile and lays her head down to sleep.
I know they say 'If you hold them too much you'll spoil them'... but my thought on this is: If she needs me to hold her, then I'm going to do what she needs- not what people think I should do. She's gotten much more independent lately and sometimes cries to be put down, if she needs held then there's some baby logic to it!
So I'm a siamese mommy today for the WeeKat. Luckily I can have her curl up on her Boppy in my lap while I'm at the computer. Just gotta find computer stuff to keep me busy! LOL
Man this cuddling stuff is hard work! *grin*
Friday, January 2, 2009
Awesome Milestone
After all the crap we went through with supply issues, mastitis, bad latch, late development of milk due to c-section.... we finally got my body and Kat ramped up to be in sync with each other finally.
Hallelujah!!! She's been completely breastfed for about 2 weeks now. She does still get bottles when she's being babysat, but mostly I try to make sure it's only 1 bottle a day still.
So proud of us...
No Cross Country Skiing...
One of them has a little girl about 6 months older than Kat, so I'm going to take her with me as well since it'll be kid friendly. I'm actually pretty excited regardless, I think this may be the start of a good thing for me. It'll be nice to make some more friends up here! Besides, maybe I'll score a playmate for Kat as well. :o)
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Happy New Year!
I spent my new year curled up with my WeeKat while Tim was at work... it was a good new year anyway!
2008... one heck of a year for me... but you all know that! I'd classify it as the best year of my life to date, that being said I am looking forward to 2009 and what it holds as well.
Many blessings and good wishes for you and your family through this new year!


